Aggressive?

Sometimes i found it amusing when i realised my friends knew exactly how i would act/react/behave towards certain situation, but at the same time i'd think it's somewhat scary, eh? Are they predicting my reactions, or they are simply judging me?

I hate being judged, although i am still learning not to judge. [Oh no I hate so many things!!]

Someone told me that he thinks that i am aggressive. Well I have no problem admiting it. Just that, what he didn't know was: i'll turn into defensive mode when i found someone "is just" as aggressive as I am, or at a higher level.

So, heres the message:
I won't feel comfortable if you start being aggressive. I definitely will try to stop you from coming closer to me. So, approach me later...and back off now. It's likely you are going to make me more uncomfortable now.